I couldn't agree more...I have an old friend of mine that's doing that and I think it's horrible. The only reason they don't get married is so they can collect a check from the government each month :baseball_getlost: Granted, he's not "living the life" by any means, but he should have thought about the expenses before leaving his jimmy uncovered.
I think it's awesome for those who can afford to have one parent stay home; it really is best for the child. But I can't stand to hear about people that intentionally don't get married just to get a break on expenses...expenses that other people like myself end up paying for...
RJ - I commend you for trying to do this the "right" way, if I can pick something up through your site and help you out I definitely will. I do a large majority of my shopping online and will be glad to help out. :beer: