Scott,
I feel for you as I have went threw this before as you have probably read my thread back in september,From 10 years of marriage and then a G/F for a year and a half.Now the whole spending money on the 'shee worked for me with the ex-wife but with the G/F break up I was out of money to do that so I got way down on myself and was misrable*for a month.Sorry for running on.My best advice to you is go have fun now while you can and meet new people and and enjoy your family.I'm 33 and I noticed that the women around 35-40 are kinda what you are looking for
" I need a 35 yr old established proffesional career woman during the day, and a 19yr old whore from 10pm-6am"At least over here.And you are correct ~cork gave me some really good advise on my situation too.The saying is true,Age give you a totally differant perspective in life and alot of nolige.You came to the right spot for guidence.I know these people helped me threw my bullsh*t.