Loco an I have had our differences and I even questioned his being a moderator, but I never accused him of abusing his "moderator powers". Moderators to me are supposed to be for lack of a better term "neutral parties". Look at BenBB or Boonman, Ray and others. You will never see them fighting or argueing with other members.
I know you all hate to hear this, but check out Planet Sand sometime. Mods like Dan Wade and Calvin Pollet are what I consider Neutral party moderators. Calvin "almost" always holds his tongue when a Cheetah or Cub are bashed. For those that don't know he is the manufacturer and designer of them both, so he should take that kind of stuff personally. But he will usually give an explanation of what could have or did go wrong, he doesn't just say "your gay".
I'm just voicing my opinion, but you don't know if you've found the best until you've tried all the worst.