X2 N2O.
Turbo, you may not have meant to be rude, but you came accross as an idiot. As a residential contractor I know where he comes from when he decides to turn work down. There are just some people you get a frustrating vibe from immediately and if you listen to your gut it can save you head ache. You already said you called, Emailed, or whatever but since you didn't instantly get a response you made a thread trying to find out the next best way to give matt another look at me message. It just shows impatience and sometimes it's just easier to pass on it. He didn't even turn you down at first, he just said he was way busy and to leave your info. So you had to post about how he was just to busy for you.
Face it man, you came off as the pestering customer. Just gotta be patient sometimes.