Sorry to hear about your divorce bro, I just got done with one myself, and it does suck ass... best thing to remember is things happen for a reason. I was a miserable ass for the last 3 years. Now I have been going out again, meeting people and am happier now then I have been in a long time, not to mention I met the nicest (and best looking) girl i have ever had anything to do with just recently. Just keep your head up bro and things will work out for ya.