That is some rotten shit, you trust some one to watch your most valued possesion (your son) while at your home, treat them right, and they re-pay you like this? Pretty fucking sad. And I hear you about your little boy asking for her, my son does the same thing for my wifes mom (she's our babysitter) when she breaks up the regular schedule. Sad part is it seems like you are a stand up guy, if she would have asked for an "advance" on her pay check, you probably would have helped her out. But instead she takes the low road and bites the hand that has been feeding her. What a pain in the ass, I feel bad for your son, and your wife -now you have to deal with all this other BS. I'd be checking the rest of that house over with a fine toothed comb, ,who know's what else she got her sticky fingers on. Good luck man.