Yep. If you are going to threaten to kick someones ass to the street, you might as well just do it and get it over with. Especially when a marriage is supposed to be a partnership, not an aquisition of someone as property. Thats called slavery.
Not to get into a rant, or off subject, or piss anyone off, but I'm not about to be anyones slave, and neither should anyone else. Some people have called it arrogance over the years on my part for the way things get done sometimes, but I prefer to call it self respect.