I feel your pain. I was "force managed" 3 years ago next week, by my whore boss who I refused to fuck. I even had a harrassment case pending when MY LAWYER DIED! When it goes wrong, it goes really wrong. Keep your head up. I've been looking for a job for 1.5 years and finally got one yesterday. The best part is that now I'll be able to harrass my old whore boss What are the odds.!.
Also, I got married 5 months after I was fired. You guys will survive, just be patient and smart. Good Luck!