You'll get lots of opinions and recommendations to that question and I don't think any one "best" can be singled out. There are a bunch of different brands that will take care of business just fine as long as it's non friction modified so it doesn't mess with the wet clutch. The manual calls for a 10w 30 motor oil. Personally I've always used Belray. This comment will probably stir things up but in my opinion (and that of my tranny guy Mark @ R&D Motorsports) I wouldn't use ATF fluid.
I run Wilburn ignitions on both of my asphalt Banshee's plus I own 4 or 5 extra boxes, flywheels, coils etc that I've picked up over the years but on anything other than a full blown drag setup I'd never consider anything besides OEM.
In general, Most OEM pieces are good quality but often expensive like you've heard.
Back in the day I preferred factory cranks in any of my stock stroke asphalt motor builds but once I ran out of "stock" I started using Hot Rod cranks.
In this case bare OEM rods wouldn't set you back much.
https://www.powerpartsplus.com/oemparts/a/yam/500391a1f870021f60a0d639/crankshaft-piston
Be careful. Depending on the setup curve 3 itself can be too aggressive (especially in a gas motor) so that +5 on the plate is really asking for trouble imo.
At one time ebay listed Chinese replacement dump tubes for Keihins but I haven't seen them in a long time. Because they get drilled out when converted to alcohol and the tubes aren't offered as an individual part for purchase you might as well pass on them.
In my opinion lockups are overrated and often not needed.
For what you have I'd do a head with upgraded domes, adjustable timing plate and possibly V-4 reeds then start saving for your future build.
I like the solid non-removable tip 8 series with gas and 9 (EG)series in my alcohol motors.
Here are the part numbers for standard NGK ES series plugs:
Solid tip - B8ES #3683 BR8ES #3961 B9ES #7148 BR9ES #3194
Removable tip - B8ES #2411 BR8ES #5422 B9ES #2611 BR9ES #5722
* R denotes Resistor plug
My old original GoPro Hero is still going strong after hundreds of passes down the track, multiple scuba dives and snorkel trips. Even has the original battery yet.
I think most will say Mattoon cushions are the most durable and their backing plate with larger screws most rugged.
Until recently I'd been using the red cushions with a Hinson backing plate (from TDR) and standard screws without any issues other than the cushions do need replaced after a couple of race seasons.