Sure I don't understand about the wife and kids thing but I can assure you that I have had far more intolerable shit directed at me in the last 10 years. Most was on this site but there was also a ton of stuff on other sites that I did not frequent. I had people make up screen names, Photoshop pictures of me, submit my name and e-mail address to spam sites, threaten me and my bikes, threaten BansheeHQ and much more.
The problem is that it is the internet and there is nothing you can do to stop anyone from saying anything. That's just the facts. At some point there in everyone's Internet days, there will be someone who tries to start shit, talks shit about your family or whatever. But what are you going to do about it is the real question? Trolls, as I like to call them, get off on the reaction. Show them no reaction and they move on. It's just that simple. By responding to the trolls you feed them, hence the term "do not feed the trolls."
As far as BansheeHQ not needing people like him, I don't disagree. The point I am trying to make is that I am glad some of the more sensitive people weren't around "back in the day." There is no way you would have ever made it through the bullshit and stuck around.
Guys like NYUK and Meat know what I mean. There were brutal knock down drag outs when it came to shit like this. You think gooniemon was bad? Well he wasn't. We've had trolls that made goonie look like a 4 year old babbling on his dad's laptop. Some of them were so persistent that they would keep on for weeks and months, picking out the same few people to mess with.
Ahh, the good old days.
Anyway, yea he's gone. But I hope that some people learn from this and remember this is the INTERNET. I have a very short temper and I am viloent. If I can deal with it, so can everyone else.