Hello Ladies!

[locogato11283]

word up led! plenty more of them out there. just wait until she hears that you have found someone new. shell crawl her ass up to your front door wanting you back at which point in time you should give her one swift kick to the teeth. then tell her to quit bleeding on your porch...

[banshee76179]

word up led! plenty more of them out there. just wait until she hears that you have found someone new. shell crawl her ass up to your front door wanting you back at which point in time

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Word!!!

 

 

She'll realize how good she had it...

[Meat]

news sucks led. Like the mighty abyss said, live the single life for awhile, your young yet so there's no need to be tied down at such a young age anyways.

 

I myself am divorced.... with a 13 year old son who lives with his mom. Now that sucks buddy. I was cheated on. She got pregnent when we were both 19 yrs old, so I cancelled all my college plans, life plans.... and I went to work to put food on the table and diapers on the baby. I worked my ass off for 5 years, 50 hour weeks building motorhomes and I bought us a nice little house. Married for about 4 years... and everything was great. Great right up till the day I found out about her seein' another guy. So Iv been where your at right now..... Iv been in a worse situation.... and its made me very distrustful of women... and sort of a loner. I feel I can't trust people and I know that bad and all, but fuckit. Live and learn and I learned you cant trust anyone but your blood\family.

 

My advice, get yourself something to fuck yourself up with, some Jack or some good smoke, sit down with your guitar and play till you can't play anymore and think about everything. You might not feel any better, but you'll realize things.... and remember that bullshit like this.... its nothing when compared with the big picture.

 

Don't go kissin her ass and don't get all depressed and shit. Thats faggy. Deal with it, learn from it and get on with living. Remember your guitar. Your guitar aint gonna walk out on ya, so play your guitar and use it as a tool to get over this bullshit.

 

Me and my X. Our song was Zep's "thank you". Kills me to hear that song.

If the sun refused to shine, I would still be loving you.

When mountains crumble to the sea, there will still be you and me.

 

Kind woman, I give you my all, Kind woman, nothing more.

 

Little drops of rain whisper of the pain, tears of loves lost in the days gone by.

My love is strong, with you there is no wrong,

together we shall go until we die. My, my, my.

An inspiration is what you are to me, inspiration, look... see.

 

And so today, my world it smiles, your hand in mine, we walk the miles,

Thanks to you it will be done, for you to me are the only one.

Happiness, no more be sad, happiness....I'm glad.

If the sun refused to shine, I would still be loving you.

When mountains crumble to the sea, there will still be you and me.

 

good luck bud

Edited February 21, 2005 by Meat

[jaysea1]

Sorry to hear the bad news, fellow banshee owner. Wait to get married in your late 20's. Women don't always know what they want, and us guys as well. I think when a woman hides her friends from you, she still wants a little freedom( sorry bro a little brutal honesty is needed) Things will get good for you, enjoy your ass off...hook up with other chicks, married life is cool, but can be complicated as well, maybe a break from one another is what you both need, when she catches wind of you hanging out with other girlies, she'll come runn'in home(the ball will be in your court)

[dogboystoy]

Well, if her friends are feeding her crap, and that is why she is leaving you,,, then she will eventually start hating her friends because deep down inside she will be upset for fucking up a good thing. And in turn, take it out on her friends by loosing the relationship with them. And if she comes back to you, ya gotta make her jump through a few hoops before you let her back in.

You know how women are... they go through more girlfriends than any guy goes through guy friends. That is because women get permanently pissed at their girlfriends for stupid shit and then they no longer speak.

I hope my ramblings made sense, and wish you the best..

BTW: I still think about past girlfriends, even though I broke it off, even after many years later. Of course when I think of them its mostly when im jerking off.

[bansheefreestyler]

man led that sucks. really sorry that this had to happen to ya. but you know more money for the toys

[Cotton eyed Joe]

Man, that really sucks. I sort of know how you feel. I had dated my ex girl for 2 years, and we went on a cruise together to the caribbiean (sp). Well, we come back on a Monday, and found out that she had been fuckin around on me for 2 months. So we went on the crusie together, she acted fine, and when we got back, she didnt even break shit off with me, I had to find out for myself. And to top that, she used MY cell phone to call the guy while we were on the ship. It really sucks to find out something and not expect it. She for sure chose her friends over me. She didnt want me anywhere near her friends, but hell, she wanted to know everything about my friends and who I ran around with. Im sure cheating isnt a factor in your case, but it all sucks and hurts the same. It was weird, for her to be totally normal on this cruise we were on, but at the same time, she didnt even wanna be with me? It's weird how girls go about doing things. I dont care if anyone agrees with me or not, but 90% of girls are VERY selfish. I would have and did everything for her, but it got me no where. This all happened about a year ago, and to this day, she's a lyin ass bullshitter. I try to stay away from her.

 

Im sorry to hear that man, come down to LS the 18th and we will take that shit off ur mind for sure.

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I hope you sent her a bill for her half of the cruise.

[sp1tekiller]

That sucks dude. I feel for ya.

 

Hey, at least you can dump that EX and treat yourself.

[RNBRAD]

I've worked along side women for the last 14yrs. I've listened to story after story of issues, relationships, affairs, you name it. Based on my experiences and women, is half the time they don't know what the hell they want. But one thing they do want whether their commited to you or not is a commitment from the other person. I don't know Brandon if she had a commitment from you or what kind of commitment you had, but most women require some type of commitment. If they don't get this they will move on. It's the sociological aspect of the "family" ideology that most women seek and want more than anything.

 

So if your ready for that commitment like you stated and you want to spend the rest of your life with her, you better let her know some how some way.

 

Mine almost got away for the exact same reason but once we were engaged it was a different story. That's been 17yrs ago. Good luck and I want to hear a happy ending to this story.

 

I may be totally off the mark here with your relationship, I'm just going by the information that was given. I wish the best for you either way.

[BdBanshee]

Sorry to hear about it man. Move on, and enjoy being single again

[ondeeeznuts]

Well on one hand that really sucks that all this crap happened on the week you were going to pop the question, but on the other hand, be glad you found out before you did, you got the rest of your life to find happiness, other than your Banshee...lol

Good luck Led!

[ledofthezep]

Meat...

My guitar is what has kept me going. The only way I can be by myself and be at ease. Hell my fingers are blistered under the calases right now. I am somewhat depressed because she was, literally my life, but I can't really help it after giving up soo much for her and then having it thrown back in my face and having to know that I never had a chance because she didn't give me one. I don't know that I can ever forgive her for that, no matter how much I could try. Thank You is a great tune, 'ours' I guess you could say was my own tune written for her that I sang to her & played when I gave her a useless promiss ring. Thanks bro...

 

RNBRAD...

That's just it, she had a promiss ring & it was no bullshit, it took me 2 1/2 years to get myself to get that for her. Then when I think everything is perfect & decide she is who I want; she took it all away. I dunno...shit happens I guess, better now than later.

 

 

Thanks again all!

[DuneRoller]

Sorry to hear that. I went through something almost exactly like that a couple of years ago. GF of 5 years who had recently become my fiancee, goes to an x-mas party and just doesnt come home. Anyway, everyone else has pretty much summed it up. These things happen for a reason. As hard as it may be, try to find whatever it is you are supposed to learn from all this.

[BigRed350x]

Sorry to hear it man. I'm sure things will look up for you. There are plenty of girls out there.

 

[ledofthezep]

Sorry to hear that. I went through something almost exactly like that a couple of years ago. GF of 5 years who had  recently become my fiancee, goes to an x-mas party and just doesnt come home.    Anyway, everyone else has pretty much summed it up. These things happen for a reason. As hard as it may be, try to find whatever it is you are supposed to learn from all this.

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That sucks man, but yeah...I can somewhat relate. I've learned a lot from this, and a lot about myself.

 

Sorry to hear it man.  I'm sure things will look up for you.  There are plenty of girls out there.

 

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Yeah, so much strange...too much time. But honestly, another girl in my life is the last thing on my mind.