X2
I just had a member purchase a part from me last night, I specifically asked for him to mark it as a gift so we could avoid the fees. I received his payment and it was not marked as a gift nor were the fees covered. I told the dude that they will need to be covered before I ship, he instantly got pissy, refused, and told me to keep the payment as a donation. I refunded his cash quickly.(I almost kept and donated it to the HQ)
I don't understand it.
It would be like going into a store trying to buy an item that is $40.00, and you get pissed when the clerk wants you to pay the sales tax.