Here's how it's going to go..
You: What's going on with us?
Her: I'm just not ready.
You: Why? Is it something I did?
Her: No, it's me.
You: We can work through it.
Her: I don't know. Maybe. I need time.
You: For what?
Her: (speaks)To see if this is what I want. (thinks)I wonder if things will work with my side dude. Plus I like how his dick tastes.
You: Ok, I'll wait for you. I love you.
Her: (speaks)I'm not promising you anything. (thinks)I guess I'll hold onto this while I see if side dude comes around.
You: It's fine. I want you. I want us.
Her: Yea, me too.
But let us know how it goes.