I had a link posted here to the original thread, but a mod named pappy closed it and it can no longer be accessed. Basically he told my wife that her avatar wasn't appropriate for a family oriented forum and that she needed to change it. My wife replied that she would, but didn't think that it was all that offensive given that she could wear that outfit in public, and that giving people some freedom to express themselves was better than being anal retentive. To which pappy replied, "look if you wanna be a skank that's your business, but I know I wouldn't want my kids to see that picture". This from the guy who has posted under his name, "she looked 18 to me".
FYI, my wife's name over there is DirtyGirl. Here's the avatar that Penis, I mean Pappy, was complaining about. She got a bunch of PM's too, first nice, then not so nice. I think the skank comment was worse than the original avatar.