conflict between ex girlfriend and banshee

[bansheeseat$$]

What R U nuts, take the bike free and clear. Trust me there will always be other psycho's out there to take her place. Trick out the banshee that you didn't pay for and believe me that little picture and funny feeling you have in your head everytime you see it will fade to LETS RIDE. Hook up with a new one and it will change your whole outlook on her ...................... :beer:

Thats not the case though.I would be paying for it.I wish it was free and clear.

[Bubba_wrx]

Love Stinks, enough said. Unless your one of the few that it happens to go good for....lol. As far as the shee....I could see you not wanting to keep it...like the other guys have said, you can always buy another shee. Best thing I can tell you as far as copeing with everything, just try to make yourself get out with friends and just have a good time, hell go out and ride your shee and make a day out of it...nothing clears my mind like a good ride. You'll get through it. :beer:

[BenBB]

That's some shit Kai, sorry to hear it but it happens. Just remember;

 

1. Men will never understand women, period. They like it that way, just when ya think you have it figured out they just change all the rules. Appreciate them for what they are, but realize they can be quite insane.

 

2. Women are all over the place, the only shortage is the good ones...the sooner you find out the true colors of the one you're currently with, the better-if it's ugly don't look back, if it's good enjoy the ride while it lasts.

 

3. Don't let her (or any other babe) get inside your head and twist it around. Know who you really are and stick to your guns, the right ones will respect it, the rest of 'em don't deserve a phone call the next day.

 

I've been there too, and trust me it can ALWAYS be fucking worse. I was stupid enough to last 13 years married, divorced and gave it a while then got serious with one that turned out to be engaged. Whatever. And yeah I'm at it again but learned from my mistakes. Kinda like racing in a points series, you can fuck up once in a while and still make out pretty good in the end heh. I think you did the right thing with her Bansh, if it's over and done with you don't need any more reminders, it'll just drive you nuts thinkin' about the past. Take it easy.

[bigboybanshee]

I think you did the right thing with her Bansh, if it's over and done with you don't need any more reminders, it'll just drive you nuts thinkin' about the past. Take it easy.

 

Took the words right out of my mouth! No matter what you could do to change the banshee from how it sits now, you'd still know where it came from....

 

I hope all works out for you, I know times like these aren't easy :beer:

[dajogejr]

It comes down to....

we can all give advice, but...you're going to do what you feel is right. I think you've done that.

 

There is a fantastic line in the movie Heat (DeNiro, Pacino, Kilmer, etc.)

 

DeNiro tells Pacino....

 

I never get attached to anything I can't walk away from in 10 minutes flat if I feel the heat coming around the corner.....

 

Yep, it's cold...but, for some people it just works.

 

You've got to do what's right for you. Vent and talk with your brothers and sisters here...this is your support group. But, it's all on you in the end!!

 

Good luck...Kai...

[bansheeseat$$]

It comes down to....

we can all give advice, but...you're going to do what you feel is right. I think you've done that.

 

There is a fantastic line in the movie Heat (DeNiro, Pacino, Kilmer, etc.)

 

DeNiro tells Pacino....

 

I never get attached to anything I can't walk away from in 10 minutes flat if I feel the heat coming around the corner.....

 

Yep, it's cold...but, for some people it just works.

 

You've got to do what's right for you. Vent and talk with your brothers and sisters here...this is your support group. But, it's all on you in the end!!

 

Good luck...Kai...

 

Dave,

That was the way I was for year because of not wanting to be hurt again from the 10 years of mariage and she kept telling me she was ok with the way are relationship was going so being the non-reading of minds kind of person I believed it.But as soon as I tell her my feelings she says hers are gone and see ya.It's like she was waiting for me to tell her my feelings so she could stomp on them"f*ck".

 

[quote name=BenBB Posted Today, 07:39 AM

That's some shit Kai, sorry to hear it but it happens. Just remember;

 

1. Men will never understand women, period. They like it that way, just when ya think you have it figured out they just change all the rules. Appreciate them for what they are, but realize they can be quite insane.

 

2. Women are all over the place, the only shortage is the good ones...the sooner you find out the true colors of the one you're currently with, the better-if it's ugly don't look back, if it's good enjoy the ride while it lasts.

 

3. Don't let her (or any other babe) get inside your head and twist it around. Know who you really are and stick to your guns, the right ones will respect it, the rest of 'em don't deserve a phone call the next day.

 

I've been there too, and trust me it can ALWAYS be fucking worse. I was stupid enough to last 13 years married, divorced and gave it a while then got serious with one that turned out to be engaged. Whatever. And yeah I'm at it again but learned from my mistakes. Kinda like racing in a points series, you can fuck up once in a while and still make out pretty good in the end heh. I think you did the right thing with her Bansh, if it's over and done with you don't need any more reminders, it'll just drive you nuts thinkin' about the past. Take it easy.

 

Ben,

I new that if I took the 'shee it would make me even worse,Shit I gave her everything back that I could for the exact same reason of my feelings.Ben I Thank you for the suport.

 

And thank all of you for suporting me and throwing your .02 cents in it really does help.Please keep them comeing so I can get over this sooner then Later.I'm at home right now because my stomach is so noughted up and I can't focus on my job well enough to feel safe in doing it,I said f*ck I got to go home before I hurt myself or somebody else.

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-Chase

[Brooke]

o man, sorry to hear about this. breakups suck. but dont jump on the women bashing, women hating bandwagon. that will just prevent you from ever finding someone special.

 

after many horrible relationships and breakups, i finally learned that you cant dwell in the reasoning of someone who doesnt appreciate you. it will drive you insane, and it does no good. if someone can look you in the face and decide that they dont wanna be with you, then they need to be forgotten. figure out what you may have done wrong, what you can do to improve yourself, grow from it, and move on. every relationship is a learning experience.

 

dont waste your time and energy worrying about her. she wasnt the right person for you, thats all. not all girls are evil, i promise.

[dajogejr]

not all girls are evil, i promise.

 

Brookie...since you were very sincere in your words...I'll leave that one be...

:yelrotflmao:

 

Always good to get advice from the other side of the fence as well.

 

Brooke...some self photos might help ease his pain a little...

 

[bansheeseat$$]

o man, sorry to hear about this. breakups suck. but dont jump on the women bashing, women hating bandwagon. that will just prevent you from ever finding someone special.

 

after many horrible relationships and breakups, i finally learned that you cant dwell in the reasoning of someone who doesnt appreciate you. it will drive you insane, and it does no good. if someone can look you in the face and decide that they dont wanna be with you, then they need to be forgotten. figure out what you may have done wrong, what you can do to improve yourself, grow from it, and move on. every relationship is a learning experience.

 

dont waste your time and energy worrying about her. she wasnt the right person for you, thats all. not all girls are evil, i promise.

 

Thanks for chime-in in Brooke.And don't worry about me jumping on the bashing wagon,I respect women way to much to do that.I'm trying not to think about her but damn we had some real good times and she really was a great person just the timeing was off and I was'nt smart enough to realize her feelings soon enough.

 

 

Always good to get advice from the other side of the fence as well.

 

Brooke...some self photos might help ease his pain a little...

 

Dave you read my mind,LOL.

Edited September 19, 2006 by bansheeseat$$

[Brooke]

Brookie...since you were very sincere in your words...I'll leave that one be...

:yelrotflmao:

 

Always good to get advice from the other side of the fence as well.

 

Brooke...some self photos might help ease his pain a little...

 

hey be nice hahaha i know girls can be evil, and so can boys, but i dont run around saying they are evil.

 

last time i posted pics here, chase threw up. best not do that again. :tongue:

 

Thanks for chime-in in Brooke.And don't worry about me jumping on the bashing wagon,I respect women way to much to do that.I'm trying not to think about her but damn we had some real good times and she really was a great person just the timeing was off and I was'nt smart enough to realize her feelings soon enough.

im glad you dont hate women lol you sound like a good guy, its hard to let go and get over even horrible relationships. just dont let her win by letting it effect how you view every woman out there. good will come to you if you let it.

[G-MC]

not all girls are evil, i promise.

My Momma told me "Women's is da devil"

Brooke...some self photos might help ease his pain a little...

I think you might be on to something. :beer:

[dajogejr]

 

last time i posted pics here, chase threw up. best not do that again. :tongue:

 

Fine...fine...you're just going to have to PM them to me and Kai....let us be the judge...

 

[Blue Duece]

id tell her to have the new guy she's been fucking since before she broke up with you to come and get her bike, when he gets there ask him how your dick tastes and be done with it......

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this calls for a " lets see brooke thread "