wheatie helped alot when i was new, but times change people change, i`am on here multiple times a day,i don`t see an out of control site.at times we get a rush of knuckleheads ,but right now it is fine.sounds like a kid that left highschool for a year and went back to find everyone had moved on.there are still many many knowledable people on here to answer any question that need be asked.