bansheeseat$$ Posted September 17, 2006 Report Posted September 17, 2006 Ok guys and ladies here's my delima,The girlfriend broke up with me on monday after a year and a half because I didn't tell her my feelings for her soon enough.(Please note that I had just got out of a mariage for 10 years) I told her on 9-6-06 because she asked for some more comitment and we agreed to give it a try for some time,So monday 9-11-06 she dumps me on the phone.I poored my full heart feelings to her,Love and all that sh*t.So she gave me five days to let her see my true intensions.(Which isn't enough time in my book) Sorry for running on it still hurts.Here's my conflict,She bought a brand new '05 'shee in july and wanted me to do a bunch of mods to it which I did no issues there however now she wants me to have the banshee and she said I could pay her for it whenever I can but I'm not sure I want it because of the thoughts of her and the hurt I feel for her everytime I would be riding it or at this time even looking at it.What are your thoughts on this and recommendations to me.Thanks. Quote
.100_over Posted September 17, 2006 Report Posted September 17, 2006 :baseball_wibble: OOO............. Quote
[email protected] Posted September 17, 2006 Report Posted September 17, 2006 grrrrrrrr...... life has such unexpected changes ! Check what you owe on the bike , decide what you can sell it for .... if its worth getting rid of and breaking near even on whats owed on it , it might be worth it...... If not , keep it and do some drastic changes . remember brother life goes on...... Quote
race-a-holic Posted September 17, 2006 Report Posted September 17, 2006 I'd say just let it go.Don't make payments.Who's to say you won't get to the last payment and she'll sell it to someone else.Probably be better to just break off all ties to her. Things will get better. Quote
[email protected] Posted September 17, 2006 Report Posted September 17, 2006 assuming it was under her name , id keep the banshee and tell her to go bye bye.... part it out . If she does decide to keep it make sure you tranfer payments over to her . etc Quote
DOTD Posted September 17, 2006 Report Posted September 17, 2006 I don't know about you but a good ride can make me forget about any problems I have going on. I say keep it, ride the shit out of it. If she's gonna make a decision to split in 5 days, better to find that out now than farther down the road right? Now go find another girl to ride as well. Quote
ClimbAnyHill Posted September 17, 2006 Report Posted September 17, 2006 Keep that bike and keep it under your name. Love.. everyone including me has had that experince and yeah it's hard but with time you'll heal & get over it. Maybe just like getting over the ex? Yeah you lover her and all but don't change for her. You already had enough trouble dealing with a 10 yr relationship. Have her understand that and have her work with you. Good luck which ever road you choose. Quote
bigscary Posted September 17, 2006 Report Posted September 17, 2006 That sucks man.....been there done that..... best thing to do is cut all ties and do your best to never see or speak to her........ but if you do end up with the bike..... Ride this shit out of it like you did her........LMAO Quote
Animalman294 Posted September 17, 2006 Report Posted September 17, 2006 Oh that was brutal................ :yelrotflmao: Quote
gipperz Posted September 17, 2006 Report Posted September 17, 2006 Been there to brother, All I can tell you life does get better and time can repair a broken heart. Keep your chin up. Quote
Shee-Male Posted September 17, 2006 Report Posted September 17, 2006 If it's in your name, mod it and decal it, that way with your personal touch, it'll be all yours! Quote
dajogejr Posted September 17, 2006 Report Posted September 17, 2006 I'd say goodbye to both of them, Kai... To be honest, after a year and a half, You're not going to change and neither is she. 5 days is nothing in comparison to a year and a half. Take a breather, move on.... You've spent the last 11.5 years of your life with someone, a wife then a girlfriend. Go live a little...and have some fun... Quote
[email protected] Posted September 17, 2006 Report Posted September 17, 2006 Go live a little...and have some fun... preech on ......... !!!!!!! I know what page your coming from . Quote
dajogejr Posted September 17, 2006 Report Posted September 17, 2006 preech on ......... !!!!!!! I know what page your coming from . Chase...PM me your email address...wanna get you some pics. Thought I had it...guess I don't... Quote
differentstrokes Posted September 17, 2006 Report Posted September 17, 2006 Kai, man sit back and see how things unfold before you make any kind of quick decision. Right now you've probably got a lot of emotions going through your head and it's only been a few days, you might change your mind from one day to the next about your relationship with her and if you remain friends or what you intend to do with the quad. As far as the banshee goes, you did the mods so it's just as much a part of you as it was her bike...keep it if you have the financial means and if things don't work out with her you can set it up for the next one that comes along...I'm sure you care alot about her but they come and go. Just part of life I guess. Quote
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