geez thats terrible Stan ,but if she is gonna be like that you dont want her and theres no telling how long she has been feeling this way ,theres more fish i nthe sea and she was wrong for you if she would jus tgive up and bail like this .sounds like shes been deceitful to me and i would start talking to an attorney right away ,this is a very crucial time to get things done (these early stages make or break your belongings and rights),and theres certain things you should not do or say ,dont put anything in wirting till an attorney has double checked it ! best of luck you WILL get through it and be better off !