we're all just messin' with you kid. But seriously, if you don't want anything sexual from her, then what is the problem talking to her? I think most guys problems talking to girls, is that they are not sure how to ask her to sleep with them. If you don't want sex, then pretend she is another dude and just talk to her. Tell her she has nice shoes...and you know the rest
By the way how old are you, I'm going to feel real bad if you are like 12