First let me say I have nothing against getting drunk. I get lit on ocassion myself. Now that being said I have a friend that is an alcoholic. I didn't know how bad he was untill about three months ago when he got busted for stumbling around in his yard with the keys to his truck in hand. Since then he has been hospitalized twice and gone through treatment. It took him about a day to start drinking again. When he drinks he stumbles, slurs, and generally acts like an idiot. Curently he does not have his license so he can't work as his job requires a license, and is fighting a DWI. He just sits around at home and drinks every day from morning till he passes out.
Now I try to be nice to this guy and get him out of the house to go wheeling when I can. I've never asked for gas money, I've wired my truck for trailer lights so I can haul his wheeler. The problem for me is this friend seems to always be so critical of everything I do yet his life seems a mess. As a minor example I wrecked the front end of my banshee and it cost me about $700 to repair. Now I could have repaired it cheaper with used parts, but I decided to upgrade a few things. I get constant shit about my decissions on how I repaired the Banshee. My friend sujests that I should have got a used a-arm, run mismatched tires and rims, and get a used shock. Same would go for just about everything else I do. He has always done this but not to the degree he is doing it now.
I try to chalk up his behavior to the problems he is having with the DWI, but when is enough. If I confront him he WILL loose it and I just don't want to deal with it. I have a wife, home, and all the responsibilities that go with being an adult. He has a home, and a bottel. I hate to dump what was a good friend, but am considering it. I've never had to deal with anything like this so thoughtful advice would be appreciated.