Ever heard of a fucked up Family ?

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long story short , my buddy who i let stay with me in my krib , he hasnt been taking his diabeates shit and all that shit , so outa no where he went into a coma like state of mind . It was nuts !!!!!!!!! His brother magically appeared at my house and even his own brother left and said he didnt care ! I had to personally drive him to the hospital and check him in and everything. Everything is okay and fine now but GOOD LORD !!!!!!!!!

 

His brother goes " im going to go find help " and he left in his car 100 mph , never returnd a call or anything !!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

was doing 105mph ish in a 40mph zone ! None the less my buddy is out and hes at my house and back at work. I just never seen a family treat there own blood so wrong. Nonetheless his brother is not welcomed at my house, we are all family here and treat everyone as if they were blood !! He gets big disability checks and helps out around the house big time.

 

 

We get to the hospital and i show up at the emergency EXIT , not entrance... so they wouldnt let him in , i pried open the electric doors and told the nurse , " Your lucky hes not shot , we dont got time to go to another entrance " FUCKIN CRAZY NIGHT

 

left the banshee wide out in the yard , front door open ,back door open , bon fire going , pitbull with no leash ....... None the less the dog did its job

 

Nonetheless i have taken my friend under my wing , and made him apart of my family...Hes coming over to my parents place for the thanksgiving dinner .

[06BaNsHeE]

Damn man thats fucked up.Thats nice of you for doing what your doing tho. :beer:

[bansheeseat$$]

Wow Chase,I honestly im dumb-founded on what to say.My brother and I have had problems in the past but I would be there for him if any problem arose.I could'nt even amagine being like that towards blood.

[Rebel3190]

Damn Chase,that's pretty shitty sounds like if you weren't around he may not be goin nowhere for Thanksgiving,but that was a great thing of u to do for a friend!!!!! :beer: Rebel

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yeah man it shocked me that much and also hurt me that much..... its fucked up man. I dont get along with my brother very much but damn right he knows i got his back . I dont charge him nothing to stay here , i just ask he helps out with whatever he wants to . I personally never seen my fridge ever this stocked up in my entire life ! pantry overflowing with food ... and hes been throwing down almost 500 for the mortgage... leaving me with 100 bucks to pay and 100 my brother....... Amazing at the cost of living if ya help someone out man... I got my buddy a drivers licence , a car , a full time job at a surf shop ( my dads friends ) thats been around since the 60's ... I really helped him out , hes about to buy a condo 2 blocks over once he gets more situated...

 

i heard his mother say "he does not want him home for thanksgiving and hes not welcomed here "

 

23 years old , comepltly sober, bright person who just needed alittle guidance..... Amazing what the fuck people got going on in there brains...... There family hates me because hes driving now and has a job ?! i just dont get it man. They are ashamed to see him do good !

 

 

( car was a donation from the stripper girl i been talkin to )

[Rebel3190]

Sounds like a fuckin crazy cracked out family and because your buddy doen't fall into that rut with them they dont like him,thats a shame to hear but i bet he is thankin God for u.

[moneybags]

Sounds like a fuckin crazy cracked out family and because your buddy doen't fall into that rut with them they dont like him,thats a shame to hear but i bet he is thankin God for u.

[STLBILL]

Thanks for being a good friend.

 

Just be careful you don't get taken. People can change and forget the nice things you do for them. To me it seems people are more opportunistic every day in America. :sad:

[06BansheeSE]

Hey chase you are a great friend for taking care of your buddy like that and there should be more people like you around. Unfortunately some people have no family values and no respect for people in general. I wonder if your friend knows what kind of punk his own brother is that he didn't even care about him like that? Good thing for your friend that he has you. :beer:

[Animalman294]

Thats cool Chase that you help him out like that, kinda reminds me of my wife's family. I mean they are all fucked up in the worst way................ ::

[Bubba_wrx]

Sounds like a fuckin crazy cracked out family and because your buddy doen't fall into that rut with them they dont like him,thats a shame to hear but i bet he is thankin God for u.

 

You hit the nail on the head. Just because they probably arent doing anything with their lives, they look down upon him because he is actually trying to do something with his.

 

I myself am a diabetic and I would hope that my brother would do something if I ever got down real bad, but I honestly couldnt tell you if he would or not. Although he's a low-down deadbeat druggy and drunk that wants everyone to do for him, but him not do anything for them, but then when they say no, he'll cuss you up one side and down the other. Myself, even though he is like this, I would try my best to get him some help if he was down like that and couldnt do anything and I knew it wasnt a joke(trying to get pain pills or something).

 

Cheers to you man, Glad they're still good people in the world. :beer:

[sgt seth]

Harsh man. Thats fuckin weak if you ask me. I can relate with you. My fathers brother has had cancer of the stomach nuts and prostate for almost a year and a half. He never told anyoen until about six months ago. Possible to have aids as well from needles. He is extremely computer smart, he grew up with computers. That was his path. Strayed from home, moved outta maine down to Delaware, got into drugs bad. Smoked pot, then did alot of fuckin blow. Ended up losing six figure jobs up his nose. Let his ex wife almost kill his kids. He has now just recently moved back into his parents house, after abandoning them. My grandparents are great people. They will give anyone the shirt off their backs. My father is a part time cop, full time school teacher so he has his head on right. Always has. My father stayed close to his parents to take care of them when they needed it.

 

My fathers brother, who i refuse to call an uncle, knows that I am deployed to Iraq, knowing how things have been going here and back home, comes home now, after never having gone to the docs after finding out his conditions. He comes home just basically to die infront of his parents and little brother. My father has gone down, taken the youngest kid away from Jim.. Done all this shit. He refuses to apply for medicare until he is ready, he is going to be smoking dope in my grandparents house, he is fucking everything up. Just to get back at his parents for being more involved with my father since he stayed around and stayed in contact with them.

 

So while I'm over here, I have to have heart to hearts with my father, yet I am the one telling him what to do, because hes never been in the situation likethis, doesn't want to get in the way of his brother really, since he is dying and shit, but doesn't want to be left out of everything, and is watching out for his parents so they dont put up the house to take care of Jim, who all he has to do is apply for medicare..

 

its a fucked up situation man. My brother stays as far out of it as he can and he lives maybe two miles from my grandparents. So still being over here I have to have the heart to hearts with everyone, cant talk much on the phone, just have internet and thats spotty.. its gone off three times writing this out..

 

So yeah.. I know your feeling and I am extremely proud of what you are doing. Being 21 myself, I understand how important what your doing for that guy is. Thanks

[corkforbrains]

"You meet the nicest people on a Banshee" :beer:

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man i had a crazy day yesterday , my buddy i was helping out got really loud at my girl and her brother , before i knew it her brother and my roomate are squaring off ready to fight..... MAN it didnt end preety . It was ethier my girl leave me or my roomie leave me. Needless to say my roomie left me IN TEARS. He understands why and was very grown up about the situation however i felt so bad having to make a decision. A grown man crying telling me i am his family and he looks up to me like a father was not what i needed yesterday. Made me feel really bad and i was in tears aswell. SUCKS everything has to go down this way but like my buddy said " its life " ...... I just want to say to everyone i learnd so much about life helping someone out. He really opend my eyes as to treating everyone equally . Atleast i know i left someone better then he was before our friendship. 2001 caddalac 56 k miles , a job , and some willpower to do good. My buddy belive it or not was a black mental patient that had some problems in his head. Nonetheless man he wrote me a long note telling me how he will never forget what i done for him and how much love hes got for me and my brother........ Like i said , he and i left in tears ....

 

I feel so bad about the situation... Hes driving to cali to go live with his sister . :shrug: :sad:

 

O well its life , I hope god knows i was only trying to help someone. Never ment any wrong, but i cant have conflicts here with my girlfriend/wife..... I draw the line at my woman. :sad:

 

edit : i got the day off , im going to catch up on sticker shit . :thumbsup:

[racer]

my roomie left me IN TEARS.

thats kinda gay dude. lol