This is my quick take:
The old/new HQ has TONS of information that has helped me and countless others. I have been reading long enough to know that you have to sift through the he said she said stuff and listen to the people that know what they're talking about. It only took me a few sessions to figure out who knew their shit and those are the posts I payed attention to. I haven't posted because I have never had much experience with the banshee until lately. Unfortuantely, people that don't have experience continue to post and people have the tendency to take what another says as the truth, without questioning. So you get people that read others' ideas and take them for the truth when they've never tried things themselves, then they turnaround and post what they think is the truth to others.
The guys that provide INFORMATION like meat, wheat, banshee370, and others are who make this forum. Without them, good information is lost over time and the more vocal guys that really don't know what they're talking about blabber about the products they have. Some of us are better about seeing what's diahrea from the mouth and what is in fact information, but it's sad when a guy that KNOWS the answers or has the experience doesn't POST because he doesn't want to cause conflict or doesn't feel his information is valued.
It is VERY DIFFICULT to understand the intentions or demeanor of a post because it's just words and 90% of communiction isn't words at all. So part of the time people flat mis-understand each other. Other times maybe arguments are heated, but people are only human and make mistakes... have bad days... etc. I think a real man/women lets things go and decides that their community around them (meaning many people) that can benefit greatly, far outweights a squabble with one or two individuals.
my $.02