Brooke

uhh...remember that post? i think i explained myself pretty clearly there. a lot of men i have dealt with want the woman to be hot, have their babies, cook for them and clean the house. apparantly you dont feel that way, and thats good. even though you did make a post explaining why you WOULD want a woman to do all that...so.... im just going by experiences ive had, and the shit ive gotten from guys ive met or gone out with. not saying all men are like that, stated many times that i know all men arent like that. i just found the hypocracy interesting. there, thats about the millionth time ive had to repeat myself. want it once more?

what question have i not answered??? ive explained eight million fucking times what i meant about that statement being hypocritical. im sick of repeating myself for you.

yea no shit. this is pointless.

holyman, the opinions i express about you are all based on your attitutdes towards me, and things you have said about me. i dont pull them out of thin air. you say you base your views about me on facts i divulged, but your views are absolutely insane! example, you assumed i was a drug user because ive 'experimented' with girls?? so youre saying that the assumption you made about me being a drug user was based on fact?? that hardly makes any sense. when i say things like you like to keep women barefoot and pregnant, they arent to be taken literally. i didnt mean you literally wont let your wife wear shoes and socks, and you continually keep her pregnant....its a school of thought that some men have, especially the religiously fanatical, and its the attitude you have projected many times before...not LITERALLY remember, just an overall attitude that the womens place isnt in the work force etc etc. as far as me commenting in this thread to begin with, i didnt realize it was ok for all you guys to bash women, but not ok for me to have an opinion about it. hell, dune_girl bashed men by saying that high level man doesnt exist, you didnt jump all over her and personally attack her. i fully admit that that awesome type of men do exist, i know of a couple. like i said before, if you really knew anything about my life, youd be singing a different tune. its too bad you have to be so closed minded. sad, really. but at this point nothing i say would change your mind about me, you just have this horrible biased towards me engraved in your mind. you cant see past what you think are horrible qualities a have.

awww happy birthday guys!!

I'm not the one who is getting all NEGATIVE on this subject. This subject started about what man would most likely look for in a women and you jump on it saying that is wrong and that guys shouldn't look for that. Why not?? Just because you don't want to be, doesn't mean that other women don't mind it and actually like the role. And to get things straight, I am not ganging up on NO ONE, this is my oppinion vs. Brooks. I said that from the beginning. Holyman and Brook are taking this off subject, I'm still trying to get answers..The way I see it is Brook looks at some of us for portraying women like we want them to be and she doesn't accept that....Oh well...Did you ever think of what a guy wants and not you??? Lets put it this way. I have everything in life. I own 5 businesses and raise my daughter for 3 years since she was a baby all by myself....So shit, what else do I need in life, besides a companion to love and someone to help at home. So what kind of woman would that be????? Kids are hard work and anyone on here w/ a kid knows that. If you have a family someone has to do most of the housework to help the other...Since (most) men make the money, then that'll put the woman at home....Am I right??? Have some kids and you tell me....... 305579[/snapback] dude, how dense are you?? this thread started out bashing women for the qualites they dream of having in a man. everyone was dogging on women for wanting everything men EXPECT from a woman. i was just pointing out how hypocritical that was. damn, keep up man. look, you obviously have issues with women, id guess youve been burned in the past. but hey, we all have. doesnt mean we need to take it out on innocent people. its fine that you want a woman to do your housework, its fine that some women want to fill that role. my point was that you shouldnt look negatively on those who dont. youre right, most men do make the money in the household, but is it so bad for a woman to be the bread winner in some relationships? holyman seems to think that makes a woman a man...dont you find that odd and old fashioned and unfair? if you and i met, fell in love, and it happened that i made more money than you, would it be so bad to be able to spend more time with your kid at home, just work part time or not at all?

first of all banchetta, it is fine to have your own preferences in the types of women you want to date. my point was that you just shouldnt speak negatively of women who dont happen to fit your taste. and holyman, you are unbelievabble. so this "retarded bastard child" as you so loveingly put it, was the result of someone's experimenting with another person of the same sex? last i knew that wasnt physically possible....i sir, do not do drugs, and for you to make that assumption just shows how wacked you really are. my statements werent meant to be taken literally, about you being the type to want to keep them barefoot and pregnant. they were meant to illustrate the mindset you have towards others. a general mindset. dont take things so literally. and as far as you being convinced im gay, well, thats your issue not mine. you know, if you had any clue about me, my life, and the way i have lead my life thus far, you may sing a different tune. it may just surprise you. open your eyes a bit to the diversity of people. show you that no one fits into these nice little stereotypical molds you try so hard to keep them in.

huh? i guess you totally missed the point of that. like i said, this is useless. get bent banchetta, youre an ass

banchetta, im saying that no one should hold anyone to cut and dry roles. why should i be thought less of just because i dont fill the roles you think i should, even though i may go above and beyond the call of duty in many other areas of my life?? that just doesnt seem fair. i know i certainly wouldnt think less of a man who couldnt fix my car, or hated taking out the garbage, many 'roles' thought to be for men to fill. my original post was to point out that, all those things some men think women would be horiible to want from a man, are things that women are automatically expected to do. doesnt that seem a bit unfair? every person is different, and contributes different things to each relationship.

what? what is your problem man? there is no perfect woman or perfect man. i never said there was. and i didnt say ALL men think wrong, did you miss my post about not generalizing? this is retarded. little boys with big heads, just looking for someone to take their agression out on. you and holyman would make great pals.

im not gay you idiot. pay attention. wow what an asshole thing to say. all that. just uncalled for. and i never said i was perfect, or the perfect woman, what the hell are you talking about?? alls i did was comment about the hypocratic views on relationships, holyman is the one who made it personal. wow. what an asshole you are. im shocked, i never knew.

hehehe i love you fixit. i bet you could help show me what a real man is like. save me from the evils of my past....

where the hell did that come from? almost everything i say goes right over your head. its useless to even try to communicate with you.

you really dont make much sense, and obviously dont get half of what i say. and the fact that you think i have some sort of torrid sexual childhood experience in my past just proves even more that you are just another one of those bible freaks, stuck in your fantasy land of a patriarical society. keep em barefoot and pregnant, ignorant and subserviant huh? you cant stand the idea of a woman being smarter than you or more sucessful than you. i feel sorry for you. i really do. youre kinda freaky actually. i wonder if youll show up on my doorstep someday, bible in hand, try to strangle me or something. its facinating, the fucked up people in this world.

oh here we go again. ive fucked around with a couple women, so that makes me a troubled person. get over it holyman. youre so lame. and you have no clue what a real man is, so who are you to judge anyone? lefty (chemical castration) is one of the best friends anyone could ask for, i know of a ton of guys on here who would agree with me on that. hes a standup guy, good heart, good head on his shoulders, honest, caring person. anyone would be blessed to have him as a friend. if he wasnt on the other side of the country, id be a lucky girl to call him my man. you on the other hand, obviously have some serious issues of your own. and some serious agrression and hate for me. all why? because ive 'experimented' with women? because i dont fill the role of a woman, as you think i should? i dont cook you dinner or wash your clothes? pathetic. how old are you? yea takes a REAL man to treat a woman who is almosy half his age with such blatant disdain. you disgust me. youre an embarassment to men everywhere.

oh please, spare me the speech. im just glad not all men are like you. ...hey...did you see how i didnt generalize that? i didnt make assumptions about ALL men, based solely on my own negative experiences with them? someday too, you may graduate to that level of thinking.

or maybe he just doesnt like you holyman. i cant imagine why though. after all, it does take a real man to treat a woman so badly. im sure lots of these fellas look up to you. especially the ones like RNBRAD who think woman love to be trerated like shit. i can take anything you throw at me holyman, so bring it. ive had a bad day, i need someone to take my agression out on, might as well be a dickless schmuck like you.

aww someone's cranky tonight. thats why ive never been interested in anal sex, i find it just makes people ugly. find your girlpower within and demand the cuddling you are obviously in need of. and for god sake, be on top for once. everyone deserves all pleasures possible. dont worry my child, as a man of god you know that HE will forgive your sins and love you when you need it most. i know youre picturing me naked right now. dont even try to deny it. i dont mind. really i dont. everyone needs something to aspire to.

Holyman, all you have to do i ask nicely, and im sure that big fat hairy dude will pull his dick out of your ass long enough for you to focus...and realize your hostility towards me stems from your love for me. its ok. i know its hard to be in love with someone you have no chance in hell of being with. i felt the same way towards johnny depp. then i realized he was a liberal fuck just like you and my loins dont crave him anymore. go with god, man, go with god.

hmmm...FUCK YOU. there, that felt good.

funny that if a woman is amazed at the idea that such a man exists, and of course wants a chance at one, she is just SO difficult and can obviously never be pleased by anything....yet men fully expect all those qualities from a woman, and are shocked an appauled when they come across one that doesnt fill all those roles. when a dude doesnt cook or clean its just typical and expected, but hey, im a fuckin spoiled brat cause i dont. hell at least im willing to earn my own money and hire my own help. i should at least get credit for that lmfao aww hell, i think im gonna be single forever

lots of hot bods, but lots of butter faces too.... but as i always say... like my friend lefty says "thats what al roker masks are for"

happy birthday!!

omg i woulda died laughing if i was the chick walking the dogs hahahahaha when my sis was in college she had this huuuge rotweiler (sp? lol) that she used to walk along the bike paths on campus. one day, someone on a bike was coming towards her, not even close to her, or close to being close to her...guess the dog freaked him out cause he saw her and got all shaken and took a major digger lmfao i wish i coulda seen it.