That's some shit Kai, sorry to hear it but it happens. Just remember;
1. Men will never understand women, period. They like it that way, just when ya think you have it figured out they just change all the rules. Appreciate them for what they are, but realize they can be quite insane.
2. Women are all over the place, the only shortage is the good ones...the sooner you find out the true colors of the one you're currently with, the better-if it's ugly don't look back, if it's good enjoy the ride while it lasts.
3. Don't let her (or any other babe) get inside your head and twist it around. Know who you really are and stick to your guns, the right ones will respect it, the rest of 'em don't deserve a phone call the next day.
I've been there too, and trust me it can ALWAYS be fucking worse. I was stupid enough to last 13 years married, divorced and gave it a while then got serious with one that turned out to be engaged. Whatever. And yeah I'm at it again but learned from my mistakes. Kinda like racing in a points series, you can fuck up once in a while and still make out pretty good in the end heh. I think you did the right thing with her Bansh, if it's over and done with you don't need any more reminders, it'll just drive you nuts thinkin' about the past. Take it easy.